The Cheating Boyfriend and the Mental Trickery He Plays
Do you think your boyfriend is cheating on you? You might even have seen the foolproof signs that he is stepping out with someone else. But when you mention it to him, he makes you feel paranoid.
That’s one of the ways a cheater manages to get away with cheating for so long – he makes you feel as though he can’t possibly be cheating! He might act hurt that you would even suspect him of doing such a thing.
As long as you feel as though you are the one in the wrong, he can continue on his merry way, cheating to his heart’s content.
Learn the signs now so you don’t get duped by a cheating partner!
Your boyfriend will start to pay more attention to you. He will want to know where you go, when you go there, and who you do it with. When you come home from the store, he will show great interest in what you bought, who you talked to, and where you might have stopped before coming home.
He isn’t watching your schedule because he’s interested – he’s watching it because he wants to know where you are at all times, so he can better plan his rendezvous with his lover. It looks like attention from the man you love, but if it feels too great to be true, it probably is!
When your cheating boyfriend is caught with his hand in the wrong cookie jar, he might blame it all on you. He’s the one who cheated, but you drove him to it! He will accuse you of not being “enough” of something. You weren’t there for him when he needed you. You weren’t sexually adventurous enough. You weren’t supportive of his new ventures. You never understood him.
The truth is, he will blame you if he can possibly get away with it, so you have to be sure not to let him.
Remember, always, that cheating is a choice – it wasn’t your fault that he did what he did!
When he’s caught and finally called on the carpet about his indiscretion, he will try to weasel his way into your heart again, and beg for forgiveness. Once you’ve decided to make things work, he might insist that you have to trust him again right away, in order to build a good relationship again.
That’s a lie, too – trust must be earned! It isn’t handed over on a silver platter.
Your cheating boyfriend will find many ways to place the blame on your shoulders instead of his. Discover all his tricks and don’t let him get away with it!
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